...and all the problems has been solved!

"What will be the best thing for you when you can sit and talk with the people u hate the most in your life?"..Well, i got a feeling to go back to my past when i made mistake with someone.

Well, I never want to end my story with someone  by leaving many questions in my head as we were just a human that won't live forever. What are the advantages of  hating someone? what is the aim to ignore someone?and what do i get if i just let everything go without solving the problems i made? Those are the questions that always flies in my head whenever i remembered the moments i started to hate someone. Hatred is not a good feeling..i do realize that but i am an ordinary girl so that i can feel many kind of feeling included the worst feeling. Trying to apologize  is something that i always want to do. I don't like to be a hater so i try and try to lose this feeling day by day. When i start to forget someone i used to hate, i can lose my hatred too. Do you feel so, guys? Yeah, that is not a good way. If we do so, it means we just run away from the problems we had. So, don't ever leave your problems by forgetting someone that we hate or have problems with us. But once again, hatred is a bad feeling. Don't try to have it as when once you have this feeling, it will be so hard to lose it.

Nah, i made an effort to lose my hatred.. I just try to encourage myself to meet someone i used to hate. Well, i just need one hour to sit and talk to him then i was amazed that i can lose my hatred so fast. I used to hate that man for months but see...one hour is enough to solve all the problems we have. When i met him, firstly i just ignored him then he tried to start out talk.. Asking how i am, and so on. Then i got a feeling that the time has come to me to talk about our problems. I told him all the problems between us then wow! he could understand me then he forgave me for what i did to Him. The point of this is that when we really hate someone because He/She made mistakes to us, what we can do is just we meet ant talk about the problems between u and him/her. Try to give him/her times to respond you after you said all the problems you have with him/her. Well, see the result then. I bet the problems will be solved in that times too. Meeting in person to solve a problem is the best way than we have to do texting, chatting on FB or skype. Prove it tho!

This part is especially for you, girls. When we got a lot of problems, we sometimes cry out loud, just sit down and do nothing. You know crying does not solve anything, if i can say otherwise it will make the problem harder (he ..he).. But crying can let your feeling out and you will feel relieved though the problems are still there to be solved. Well, if you can..don't waste your tears!! Do something!


Well, 2 tips there is only the simplest tip when you got troubles with someone. First just meet in person and don't just cry, sit down and do nothing haha ha aa..Action is better than anything.,!!

OoOpss, this writing is just tasteless as yeah, i don't have any idea what i have to write but there i s a great light that shines me to write this topic though it is just a simple writing but hope you all enjoy :)


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Our problems are man-made, therefore they may be solved by man. No problem of human destiny is beyond human beings.

by: John F. Kennedy

"You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well." by: Lewis B. Smedes

Best wishes, 
 :D
SISILIA