Are you Jomblo..??

Yeah, the word 'jomblo' means being single. Then there is a question that covers me, "Is being jomblo a choice or..?? what? Yeah some of us said that being jomblo is a shame.. Some said being jomblo is just fun. But for me, being jomblo is a choice..!!! When i was in school, i chose to be single. It's weird for some people as school time is a great time to have a love story. ha ha... Is that true? Well, being single is just great..but honestly, loneliness will always be with me, sometimes. Yeah, it is not really a matter. Well from my experiences of being Jomblo, i got so many things such as:

• I can spend my days and times  with my lovely friends
• I can make friends with everyone as there is no one who will warn me 
• Experiencing so many kind of activities without asking permission from BF
• Living independently without depends on my BF's shoulder (hi..hi..hi)

Well, those are some benefits that i get when i am being jomblo but yeah, i can not deny that sometimes, being single is a bit hard as we are just a normal human who want to be cared and loved.

 Making a serious relationship is not as easy as we think, tho. I had an experience when i choose, i want to leave my 'jomblo' tag from myself. Well, at that time, i just wanted to be like the common girl. Most of them have boyfriend. The choice i choose is not coming from my deepest heart but it is just like a temporary feeling that i want to have BF as my friends. haha.. it's a silly thing that i did. I can not think maturely at that time. Yeah, i was only 18 years old girl that want to be like others. It's not the best choice that i choose, indeed.

'Pacaran', the common word in Indonesia now for a girl and a man who are on date. Well, i am just a bit amazed now as many junior high school students or even the elementary students know what 'pacaran' is. haha .. Some people say awwa..it's not cool if we don't have GF or BF.. Even i ever heard that being 'jomblo' is like a shame as the people will say us we are not beautiful, handsome, smart, etc. That is not true if I can say. Being 'jomblo' is not a shame but it's just the choice as our life is our own choice. 

'Jomblo', 'Jomblo"... So if someone say:

Don't be shy to say Yes, I am Jomblo if you are really jomblo NOW.. Be proud to say I am Jomblo as Jomblo is not a SHAME..!! It's only a thing we choose to be in a relationship or not..

Some great quotes that can make you know that being single is not always an unlucky situation that we have:

"I don't like to be labeled as lonely just because I am alone"- Delta Burke

"Sometimes you have to stand alone to prove that you can still stand"- anonymous

You have brains in your head. You have your feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any directions you choose.You are on your own and you know what you know. You are the man who will decide where to go"-Dr. Seuss


SIESIELIA SAYS: "I AM SINGLE AND I AM HAPPY :) "
Well, for Jombloers..Listen to this old song.. :D

 

OPPIE ANDARESTA- SINGLE HAPPY