..Grumbling..??

First see this:

..And read this:

 AaAa :   " Sist, I got so many burden here. I can't keep it on. I have to do many things by myself. I feel so tired. I feel i am like a fool girl. Nobody will not see me as who I am as i am just an ugly girl and i do not have anything to be shown off.. So what do i have to be here?" 

BbBb:    " hey Sist, Do not ever say that things. When u are grumbling about your  life or even about yourself, you will only get so much troubles in your life. You will not feel relieved and your burden will be harder. What you have to do is just saying thanks for what you already had. Nobody is perfect so you are too. We got so many problems, so many burdens, so many things to do but grumbling is not the best thing we have to do. It only wastes our times and it does not fix anything.So, you are always great for who you are and for what you had..Be tough and do not grumble whenever you got something wrong in you life."

okay, what did you get from a short conversation above? From my experiences, i admit that i always do that thing--Grumbling whenever i got problems or when i got stuck in something that makes me annoyed. It is normal i think as we are just human but i do agree that grumbling makes what problems we have harder and nothing is solved by grumbling. We only will waste our energy or even our times. I feel when i am grumbling about everything i had, everything i face day by day, what i feel is only annoyed, angry and also i feel i can not do anything besides grumbling. Grumbling and crying is just two words but this things always we do when we got stuck in something.

Which one you choose crying or grumbling? If i have to answer, i will say that i choose to cry though those two options are  hard to choose ha ha ha... Why do i say i choose crying? By crying out loud, it can let our feeling out so we can feel what we call relieved though the problems we had are not solved. At least, I can feel what i call relieved and in my opinion, we learn nothing but we learn how to grumble if we do grumbling. For me, grumbling is useless as we just spend our energy and it makes us tired and feel that our life is like over ha ha... So just save the energy to do other things except grumbling ... :)

SO WILL YOU BE:

AND MISS GRUMBLE??

“It is no use to grumble and complain; It's just as cheap and easy to rejoice; When God sorts out the weather and sends rain - Why, rain's my choice.”

James Whitcomb Riley quotes